I love the opportunity hand hands gives me to catch up with people. A non-malicious selfishness by which I have someones attention for 30 minutes and they of course have mine. When you focus all you attention on someone for 30 minutes there is a quality of engagement which I don’t think I can compare to anything else. It’s fun and exciting and indulgent and makes me understand why as a child you demand undivided attention. It’s not polite to demand undivided attention as an adult.